Daily Happiness

Jul. 31st, 2025 10:28 pm
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1. I haven't watched the Nintendo Direct yet but it seems there were some surprise new games announced, like a new Octopath Traveler!

2. Another day of ridiculously high sales at the new store.

3. I am going down there tomorrow to help out, so that will likely be an exhausting day, but at least I can have Saturday off. I'm probably going to need to go in Sunday, though.

4. The puzzle I'm currently working on is a tough one. It's 750 pieces, which is the largest I've attempted, plus it's a circle, plus it is mostly just two colors. It's not something I necessarily would have picked out on its own, but it's part of that Disney anniversary four pack and I figured I might as well do them all at once. But while it's been slow going, I have been making a little progress every day, and it's finally starting to come together.

5. I love Molly's perfect paws.

Status mingled

Jul. 31st, 2025 07:25 pm
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Well, yesterday, besides achieving valid British Library reader pass, in case I ever decide to go and do research there (I think there are/were also some offsite advantages, or at least, I tried to avail myself of some facility on their site some while ago and was told 'not if you are not in possession of current pass'- I think recently enough that it was not something obliterated by cyberattack??) -

- anyway, the reason I actually got myself together with expired pass and acceptable ID was that my dental practice is almost opposite BL and I had a hygienist appointment.

And apart from a couple of small things where I could give them a bit more brush action, I am keeping the ol' toofypegs in pretty good nick, considering.

So those things were fairly on the okay side of the balance.

On another prickly paw, something about the physio exercises for my hips set off a lower-back flare - not as bad perhaps as the one in May but I am now proceeding with caution, and building up numbers rather than doing the full sets of repetitions.

In the realm of Internette Troublez, partner has been having Issues with a certain Rail Company booking tickets, where they are booked - y/n? - charged to card but not actually available to download - this is iterating. Sigh.

While Publishing Person and Web Manager for my fictional endeavours is having An Issue with FTP, and as they are the one I tend to turn to when having Techno Problems, uhhhhhh. Am now communicating with Internet Provider Support Team.

Daily Happiness

Jul. 30th, 2025 09:58 pm
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1. We are still having record sales at the Irvine store. Even the weekdays have been higher than weekends at the other busiest stores. But it's so wildly beyond what we expected that there's just no way for the store staff to keep up. People from HQ and other stores are being asked to pitch in and help, and I went again and worked about seven hours (after already working from home in the morning for several hours). It shows no signs of slowing down, but I hope it slows down at least somewhat, and soon!

2. Tomorrow I have a bunch of things to do and a couple meetings, but it's at HQ, so at least I won't be running around stocking and stuff. It will feel like a day off in comparison!

3. Cutie.

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What I read

Kris Ripper, Runaway Road Trip: A Definitely-Not-Romantic Adventure (2019) - a certain predictability that goes with the genre, really but kept up a reasonable momentum.

Annick Trent, By Marsh and by Moor (Marsh and Moor, #1) (2025): felt a bit so-so about this, not perhaps as taken by it as others of hers I've read.

Miranda July, All Fours (2024) - this was a Kobo deal so I gave it a try and eventually gave up. Is this maybe a generational thing? Hear it is quite A Thing, but really. (Was having pervasive flashes of my 'is it time to do some Doris Lessing re-reading?')

Also marked The Kellerby Code as DNF.

John Wyndham, The Midwich Cuckoos (1957), which was a Kobo deal and which I had not read for something like 50 years - had forgotten how talky it is. Some points for having Village Lesbian Couple, but these were fairly frequent in crime novels of the time, weren't they?

LM Chilton, Everyone in the Group Chat Dies (2025). I found this did the suspense thing pretty well once it got going but I had some cavils over the tone and the general idea of 'hilarious serial-killer thriller involving true crime social media mavens'. I am not sure this is quite the same thing as Universal Horror movies cycling round to 'Abbott and Costello meet [Monster]' as franchise grows tired.

On the go

Back to Lanny Budd - have now started Presidential Agent (1944).

Up next

That's likely to keep me going for a while, but I've got my eye on Jessica Stanley, Consider Yourself Kissed, of which I have heard good report.

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Checking in to reassure y'all because of the current news.

Boy review

Jul. 30th, 2025 10:43 am
[personal profile] cosmolinguist

I got a text from the gender clinic a while ago saying "You are due a mandatory in person annual review appointment," so that's what I'm going to this morning.

I asked D to come with me, which he kindly has taken off work for, and on the bus in to town he said "So what do I need to know about this appointment?" I said I had very little idea myself and read out the text: mandatory, in person, review.

I did this on the phone last year, but all I remember is that that's when I was first told that I'm too fat to get top surgery. I think otherwise I'm very straightforward: I take my T, I don't forget, my GP is good at prescribing it, I'm not too unhappy with any of the side effects. Last year I could say I was doing counseling from them and I was told I was getting near the top of the voice coaching waiting list (though, another year on, I've still heard nothing about that...)

I told D "I think it's just, like, a meds review but for the whole real, not just meds."

"A boy review," he said.

I grinned. "Yeah!" I rested my head on his shoulder and asked "How is your boy?"

"Pretty good," he smiled. "Could do with more sleep."

So yeah, I'm off for my boy review.

3 things make a post

Jul. 30th, 2025 10:48 am
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It is a long time since I posted. I am not sleeping. I am waking at three o'clock in the morning and that's it. Awake. Doing that thing where you lie quietly with your eyes closed (and pretend you're asleep) is helpful but not the same as real sleep. I am desperately murderously tired.

Cat is being a bloody nuisance. For the past ten years he has refused to eat everything except for Royal Canin crunchies for very fussy cats - anything else was refused on the grounds clearly not edible and why were we being so cruel to our very beautiful cat.
Anyway a couple of months again he had a tooth infection (cleared up with antibiotics, thank-you for asking) but obviously his usual diet was hurting his mouth. So he didn't eat. He just yowled at us. After three days of non-stop yowling we persuaded him to eat some tuna, and also some luxury catfood. By eat I mean he licked the gravy off and leave the chunky catfood bits. He's now back eating the royal canin crunchies but is also demanding catfood in gravy. Loudly. With attitude. I have tried whizzing up the catfood with some warm water to make a delicious catfood slurry and it really didn't work. He will eat tuna. Mostly. But I'm not going to feed my cat Recycling caddy is full of the catfood he won't eat and it stinks. Man up the road (who has too much time on his hands) came round to give me helpful advice about cleaning it out. Bloody cat.

It has been a good season for blackberries. The freezer component is full to bursting of bags of frozen berries, and Monday I came home with another kilogram which we just had to eat because no room left in the freezer. Not a great hardship - I love picking berries.

Targeted T

Jul. 29th, 2025 08:58 am
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D watched me put the planned manitizer on my thighs this morning and sang "goopy legs doodoodoodoodoo" to the tune of "Baby Shark."

Then he said "No wonder you're so good at wall sits, you put the testosterone right on your quads!"

(I am not that good at wall sits, but I don't hate them as much as he does.)

I smiled. "I don't always, you know," I said. "Sometimes I put it on my shoulders, upper arms. It's why my biceps are so good."

Daily Happiness

Jul. 29th, 2025 09:02 pm
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1. I was able to work from home today and rest a little, even if not taking the day fully off (I did work less than I usually would). The exhaustion caught up with me all at once and I felt so worn down, so I'm really glad I didn't have anything urgent to take me out of the house. Considering doing the same tomorrow, depending on how I feel when I wake up.

2. Carla has been craving Indian food the past few days so that's what we ordered for dinner tonight. Everything was delicious (though as expected it did not agree with my stomach) and there's a ton of leftovers.

3. Look at these cuddle boys!

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The show was amazing and I had so much fun, but I'm still so exhausted from work I don't have the energy to write about it in much detail.

I never saw them perform the Black Parade live the first time around, so this anniversary tour was a really exciting opportunity and I'm so glad I was able to go. I bought the ticket so far in advance I'd forgotten that it was a pricey one. There's this area above the loge seating called "party box", which has just six seats per row instead of eight, and they're not regular stadium seats but stools (with backs) and a counter. Very nice. Would definitely pay the premium for these seats again. They're also raised up high enough over the last row of regular loge seats that even if those people are standing, it doesn't block the view at all.

The opening band was called Wallows and they went on at seven. I'd never heard of them before, but they were pretty good. They didn't play that long, so between the opener and the break, MCR was on stage by about 8:30, just as it was getting dark.

Setlist )

I loved that they played Helena for the final song. I did leave while they were still playing, to get a jump on the traffic leaving the parking lot, and it was cool to hear "so long and good night" as I was walking out. As for the other songs, I'm Not Okay and Na Na Na are two favorites, so that was nice. It seems they've really been mixing it up on the set list for the second half, and if I hadn't had another exhausting day of grand opening at work on Sunday I'd have been tempted to buy a last minute ticket to that show as well.

Pics! )

Overall definitely worth dragging my exhausted ass up to Dodger Stadium from Irvine on grand opening day.
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Some book reviews that have lately crossed my line of sight.

Andrea Ringer. Circus World: Roustabouts, Animals, and the Work of Putting on the Big Show:

Ringer is not interested in the perceived glitz and glamour of big top spectacles. Rather, she presents the golden age circus as a site of working-class labor, where both humans and beasts toiled from day till night under the near-constant gaze of thrill-seeking visitors.
....
_Circus World _is the sort of book that will captivate (and, in some cases, horrify) a great many readers. It's a
must-read for anyone interested in the history of the modern circus; the same is true for historians of animal entertainment and industry. Gender studies scholars will appreciate Ringer's fresh insights into the ways circuses amplified colonial and patriarchal notions of race, gender, and family. Plus, the book's short length and bite-sized
chapters make it ideal for classroom use. Above all, _Circus World _succeeds as a work of labor history, one that takes nontraditional work and nontraditional workers seriously.

***

Dominic Pettman. Telling The Bees: An interspecies Monologue. Possibly a bit twee/poncey?

Weary of the insistent demands and disappointments of online life in the early 2020s, Dominic Pettman turned to a very old practice: Rather than commenting on current events by posting for his followers on social media, he would tell the bees instead. The record of this experiment is _Telling the Bees: An Interspecies Monologue_ (2024). "Indeed, this time-honored activity--practiced in villages all over Europe, for centuries--seems much healthier to me than confessing things to the digital ether, the anonymous world via social media," he writes early in the journal (p. 2).
....
In Pettman's case, as a resident of New York City, he doesn't have much access to actual, in-the-flesh bees. The apartment co-op won't let him have a hive on the roof, for one thing. At the start he makes do by talking to "wild" bees he encounters on his walks in Central Park, but as the seasons change and the threats of COVID-19 force
ever smaller spaces of interaction, Pettman conjures and speaks to virtual bee--"the memory of bees," as he calls it, prompting a wry rejoinder from a waggish colleague: "These bees ... Are they in the room with us now?" (p. xi).
Readers seeking a journal of material human entanglement with physical bees will not find that here. Pettman's virtual bees are much more akin to the "virtual animal totem" [.]

***

This one does involve actual encounters with the beasts in question, it would appear: Leslie Patten. Ghostwalker: Tracking a Mountain Lion's Soul through Science and Story.

Patten then combats history and myth with a series of case and site studies in Montana, Wyoming, New Mexico, Colorado, and California, and interviews with mountain lion experts of every stripe--from trackers, hunters, and houndsmen (people who hunt with dogs) to wildlife biologists and conservation management specialists. Along
the way, Patten nimbly debunks so many myths about cougars--that they are isolate, cold-blooded killers who need to be managed to keep them from pets, livestock, and small children and that legal hunts are an effective way to manage and stabilize populations.

***

Hedgehogs in fact are ambiguously situated: Laura McLauchlan. Hedgehogs, Killing, and Kindness: The Contradictions of Care in Conservation Practice.

In the UK, hedgehog conservation is both necessary and supported by the public: Population numbers are in steady decline, while the animals themselves occupy a fond place in the British consciousness. The second section details her fieldwork in New Zealand at pest-control initiatives, including outreach events and community pest-control groups, conservation initiative Zealandia (a completely fenced ecosanctuary in Wellington dedicated to restoring
native flora and fauna), and her own "guerrilla" care for local hedgehogs. In New Zealand, hedgehogs are thriving despite their status as an invasive species, provoking widespread public animosity.

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I keep hoping that I'm going to have something vaguely interesting to say, but that hasn't happened (yet?)

Work has been intense lately. Yesterday and Sunday were two of the worst shifts I've done in forever. And I'm glad I've started sleeping better thanks to the amitriptaline, because I'm not sure how I would've coped otherwise several times over the last month or so, but especially the last couple of days.

There is a bright spot in all of this (aside from the meds doing the thing they're meant to), but I don't want to talk about it right now. But at least not everything is shit, let's put it that way.

And things are (hopefully) going to ease up, so there's that to look forward to.

I don't really have anything else to say at the moment, but at least y'all know I'm still around!

Daily Happiness

Jul. 28th, 2025 09:21 pm
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[personal profile] torachan
1. Well, the new store did not calm down at all today. No one was expecting this. Off the chart sales, which is amazing, but we were not prepared in terms of staffing and everyone is running ragged. I at least don't have to go help today, so I could have a more restful day, but I will go help out at least another day or two later in the week.

2. I got my hair cut this morning. That always feels nice.

3. Look at that cutey chin!

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Recent spam email for a conference with initials which did not immediately decode for me:

ICGO is a boutique-style event that emphasizes depth and interaction. Modest in scale but rich in content, the conference’s intimate setting fosters close communication and meaningful dialogue. It encourages one-on-one and small-group discussions that often lead to lasting collaborations.

Takes me back to the dear old 1970s and the growth movement, what?

But then we discover

This esteemed gathering offers an exceptional opportunity for obstetricians, gynecologists, researchers, clinicians, and healthcare professionals to connect, share insights, and advance the field together.

One-on-one with gynaes is more reminding one of 70s soft pornos, hmmmm?

The conference is in

Athens, a city that blends ancient heritage with modern innovation, providing an inspiring backdrop for intellectual exchange. Its vibrant culture and Mediterranean charm will undoubtedly enrich your conference experience.

There is, apparently, a International Conference on Gynaecology and Obstetrics which holds ALOT of conferences in exotic places. I have managed to track down the details for a past occasion and discover - SURPRISE!!!! -

Travel
Due to limited budget resources, we regret to inform you that the conference is unable to sponsor or cover travel expenses for any participant, including speakers. We encourage speakers to make their own travel arrangements and plan accordingly.
Important Note
Please note that this conference is organized independently without sponsorship or support from any external organizations. The registration fees are primarily used to cover the cost of amenities and services provided to our registered members, including meals, snacks, sessions, networking opportunities, and other event-related activities.

The cherry on top of all this? -
We are pleased to offer honorariums to our esteemed keynote and invited speakers. To qualify for an honorarium, speakers must secure a minimum of 5 paid registrations or group paid registrations from their students, colleagues, or peers. The amount of the honorarium will be determined based on the number of registrations obtained. We encourage our speakers to actively promote the conference within their networks to ensure a rewarding experience for all.

Does this count as pyramid-selling?

Wotta racket, eh?